Milestone Moments for Intergenerational

Each Milestone Moment consists of two pages that are reproducible in your local setting. It can be sent in emails or printed.

  • Page 1 describes the significance of the moment and the importance of observing it.
  • Page 2 provides a conversation guide* that includes talking and listening to one another, reading a verse/s from the Bible, and a prayer and blessing. It includes a food for thought question on how one might show love for one’s neighbor through an act of service.

All Milestone Moment Conversation Guides are designed and based on the *Four Key Faith Formation Practices of Caring Conversations, Devotions, Rituals and Traditions, and Service. These practices encourage us to grow in our faith through personal, trusted relationships.


When someone we care about has experienced the pain and anxiety of a broken bone, we want that person not only to fully heal from the broken bone, but also to experience support, peace, and hope. For the person who has broken a bone, changes may take place in their lives and in the lives of those caring for them. This Broken Bone Milestone Moment provides a time to pause, shift gears, and recognize God’s presence in this moment.


Our pets are very dear to us. They are part of our family and provide us with comfort and unconditional love. The loss of a pet can be emotionally draining and has been described as comparable to the loss of a human loved one. Time for grieving and healing is important. Being patient, acknowledging what has happened, and giving oneself time to grieve and permission to express feelings can be helpful. The Loss of a Pet Milestone Moment brings family and friends together to recognize and mark this sad time in their lives and affirm God’s presence in their midst.


Planning a vacation and spending time away from daily routines is filled with excitement and plans to make meaningful memories. A vacation offers time to relax and have an adventure in a new setting or return to a favorite vacation spot. Journeying together is meant to be fun and needs the added ingredients of kindness, patience, and forgiveness. This Going on Vacation Milestone Moment provides an opportunity for family and friends to gather together for conversations and thoughts before going on the vacation. A prayer and a blessing given to those going on vacation is a reminder of God’s presence.


 


When a family gathers for a reunion, it is a wonderful blessing that provides an opportunity to      embrace the past, talk about the present, and dream about the future. It is a good time to reflect on past generations and the lives of those who have gone before. This Family Reunion Milestone Moment offers an opportunity for family members to recognize God’s presence in the moment by engaging in caring conversations, reading a scripture verse, praying the Lord’s Prayer, and blessing one another.


Birthdays mark the anniversary of someone’s birth. Each year brings a time to reflect on the past and look to the future with hopes for the year to come. Countries around the world recognize particular birthday years as stepping stones in one’s life. Birthdays are a time to celebrate the life of someone who is special to you. Every year brings new hopes and dreams. This Birthday Milestone Moment provides an opportunity to gather with family and friends to recognize God’s presence in this moment.


We often describe gratitude as giving thanks but the word gratitude comes from the Latin word gratia meaning grace. This gives it a much deeper meaning.Scientific research has shown that those who regularly practice gratitude find that it improves mental health and reduces stress.Gratitude is written in scripture throughout the Bible.The Book of Psalms alone has over 30 themes of gratitude and thankfulness. This Practicing Gratitude Milestone Moment provides an opportunity to set aside time in the busy world that surrounds us to be thankful for God’s presence in our daily lives.


Surgery of any kind, whether outpatient or one that requires a longer stay in the hospital, can cause one to be concerned. Caring conversations followed by prayer and a blessing can be of comfort to the one receiving the surgery and to family and friends as they await the day surgery takes place.This Pre-Surgery Milestone Moment provides a time for family and friends to come together, have meaningful conversations, share concerns and fears about the upcoming surgery, and recognize God’s presence in their lives.


Research has shown that the home plays an important role in faith formation.Setting apart a special location in the home and blessing the area as a home altar serves as a reminder to honor God’s presence in our lives. It is a space where faith talk, prayer, and worship can take place. Suggested faith related resources to place in the home altar area are a Bible, cross, candle, and faith chest. This Blessing the Home Altar Milestone Moment is a special time to set aside and acknowledge God’s presence through caring conversations, a scripture reading, prayer, and a blessing for the home altar space.


Gathering together with family and friends around the garden space at home or in the community to celebrate and bless gardens builds relationships and memories. This is a time to cherish the roles gardens play in our lives and to show appreciation to God for giving us the gift of plants and gardens. This Blessing of the Gardens Milestone Moment brings all ages together to mark this as a time to acknowledge and affirm God’s presence as the garden is planted and grows.


A 2023 survey taken by the Pew Research Center found that in the United States 62% of adults owned a pet. It also found that 51% of them viewed their pets as being as much a part of the family as a human family member. Getting a new pet is a major event in our lives. Whether you have found your new pet in a local animal shelter, rescue organization, pet store, or other place, this Adopting a Pet Milestone Moment provides a time for gathering with family and friends to affirm God’s presence and serves as a reminder of our role in caring for God’s creation.


The tradition of having a family Bible has been around for centuries. Some of these Bibles became family heirlooms and served as a place to write and document family history. Whether you are blessing an older family heirloom Bible or a newer one just purchased to begin this tradition in your family, this Blessing the Family Bible Milestone Moment provides a moment to gather and affirm God’s presence reminding us of the importance of God’s Word in our lives.


Establishing prayer as a normal part of a family’s daily routine helps build and support a tradition for passing on faith from one generation to the next. This Prayer as a Family Tradition Milestone Moment provides an opportunity to place an emphasis on prayer. It also supports and serves as a reminder for parents and grandparents of the important role that prayer has as a ritual and a tradition in the home. Practicing prayer regularly strengthens our relationship with God and with one another.


Whether brought on by the loss of a loved one, a life transition, relationships ending, career disappointment, or health declining, we all experience grief. Grief is both a physical and emotional response to loss.Many times family and friends are in denial and do not know how to act in response to a loss.This Loss and Grief Milestone Moment gives the opportunity for family and friends to support those who are grieving.  Recognizing God’s presence in this moment can be comforting and encouraging.


Whether learning to ride a bike, play an instrument, use a computer, dance, ski, painting on canvas, or speak a foreign language, learning a new skill marks a milestone in our lives. This Learning a New Skill Milestone Moment provides an opportunity to gather with family and friends to celebrate a new talent or ability that one has acquired. Setting aside time to celebrate the accomplishment and recognize God’s presence in the moment is affirming.


People choose to participate in a marathon for a number of reasons. Among those reasons are to raise monies for charity, face a mental or physical challenge, for health and fitness goals, or as a personal accomplishment. Less than 1% of people around the world ever run a Marathon.This Running a Marathon Milestone Moment gives family and
friends an opportunity to engage in caring conversations with the one running and recognize God’s presence with a prayer and a blessing for the runner.